Let Others Be Right Most Of The Time

Let Others Be Right Most Of The Time

Being right, defending our positions takes an enormous amount of mental energy and often alienates us from the people in our lives. Needing to be right or needing someone else to be wrong encourages others to become defensive, and puts pressure on us to keep defending. Yet, many of us spend a great deal of time and energy attempting to prove (or point out) that we are 'right' and/or others are 'wrong'.
Have you ever been corrected by someone and said to the person who was trying to be right, "Thank you so much for showing me that I'm wrong and you are right". Or, has anyone you know ever thanked you when you corrected him or her, or made yourself 'right' at their expense? Of course not.

The truth is, all of us hate to be corrected. We all want our positions to be respected and understood by others. Being listened to and heard is one of the greatest desires of the human heart. And those who learn to listen are the most loved and respected.
A wonderful, strategy for becoming more peaceful and loving is to practice allowing others the joy of being 'right'. Give them the glory. Stop correcting. As hard as it may be to change this habit, it's worth any effort and practice it takes.

The people in your life will become less defensive and more loving. They will appreciate you more than you could ever have dreamed possible, even if they don't exactly know why. You'll discover the joy of participating in and witnessing other people's happiness, which is far more rewarding than a battle of egos

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